Four Reasons Not to Book with Me
You’re a skeptic and want me to prove something to you
First off—what a waste of both my time and your money. I cannot access anything from your life library without your participation in your own stream of consciousness. The moment you come in with the energy of “prove it” you are already withholding information—from me, and more importantly, from yourself.
That doesn’t just make the information more difficult to accurately decipher; It changes it’s quality entirely.
Instead of data flowing naturally, I have to pull for it. And I don’t like to force anything in my life. The moment force enters, the read becomes clunky, awkward, and the information becomes distorted.
If you are not actually ready to hear what comes through
Nothing I say in a session is coming from me. It is your information being reflected back to you through me.
We all have things we don’t want to know and I get that. But if you’re not in a life place where you are open to actual guidance. There’s no need to delude yourself into thinking that you are. You may really just be seeking confirmation bias of your own perceived victimhood, or an excuse to continue with your destructive choices. If what comes through does not align with either of those interests, there’s a tendency to reject it - even if it does in fact strike a chord.
I can feel when information is being rejected by your ego before you say a word.
I can discern between an unclear read, and ego protection. When an entire reading is met with denial and “that doesn’t resonate” nine out of ten times, its ego protection.
I will always admit when something isn’t coming through clearly or I’m not getting a clear signal; I’m not above that. But more times than not, I trust myself more than I trust your reaction.
If your own higher wisdom is going to be ignored and dismissed the entire session, please save us both the from a very long, uncomfortable hour. You can always schedule later in life when you’re operating with more self-honesty.
If you know you’re going to be distracted or unable to be present
This is actually pretty confusing for me. I feel like my prices are enough of an investment that I would expect people to value the time and space we’re creating together.
I’ve had more than a few sessions where clients are on their phones—clearly texting or otherwise preoccupied—for more than half of the session. I am not kidding. Their phone is visibly in front of them, and while I’m presumably on a larger screen, they’re looking down, engaged with something else entirely.
Again, I cannot retrieve your soul-data without you.
So when you are distracted, I—being tapped into your energy stream—feel that distraction directly. The sensation is akin to car sickness or vertigo. It’s awful.
Because while you are receiving stimuli from another source, I am experiencing the effects of that distraction without access to the source itself.
And it’s not just phones. I once watched a client cook and entire meal—with me on their phone—moving around their kitchen, multitasking, and then sat down and ate the entire thing in front of me.
It is very, very strange behavior.
And it completely disrupts my connection to your spirit life when you are that complete distracted. Listen, if you need a quick snack or a drink, that’s completely different. If I wasn’t the professional, I’d have a snack in front of me 100% of the time. But preparing and eating an entire meal during a session beyond my understanding.
Similarly, if you know you’re going to be traveling, or in an environment that wouldn’t even be appropriate for a remote doctor’s appointment, please just reschedule. You can do so using the same link provided in your Zoom confirmation email.
Doing a reading while you’re at a truckstop on the side of the highway- your family coming in and out of earshot, wind, traffic, and general chaos- is incredibly distracting for you, and thereby incredibly distracting for me.
When you are not able to be present, there is very little if anything shift the quality of the reading. That responsibility truly lies on you.
If you want me to spy on a love interest or current partner.
Listen, I can do this. But I won’t do this. One, it puts me in a very uncomfortable energetic frequency. Spying on someone—whether in the 3D or the 5D—is super invasive and super creepy. And anything that feels creepy is not a clean or stable frequency to read from. Two, its crossing some very basic ethica standards. I understand that other mediums will do this for you; I will not. I do not have that person’s consent to access them, and I respect that boundary.
Three, it’s not sustainable and does not build self efficacy. If you feel like you need confirmation that your partner is up to some shady shit, you need to learn to trust yourself, and have control over the aspects of your life that you have control over. Spirit will always guide you toward clarity, but will not be an accomplice in building a case against a loved on.
And realistically—what are you going to do with that information?
“Hey, my psychic medium saw you cheating on me.”
If they didn’t have reason to call you crazy before, they definitely will then.
